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Vol. 16, No. 04 – Nov 16 – Nov 30, 2022 – Movie Review

Streaming Spotlight by Cindy Summers
Where the Crawdads Sing – Netflix

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Breeze rating from 1 to 4 palm trees, 4 being best.

When a young man from a wealthy family was found dead at the base of a fire tower in a North Carolina marsh, the police decided to blame a young woman named Kya (Daisy Edgar-Jones) who was known as the “Marsh Girl” as she was an outsider and an easy target for injustice. When Kya was young her mother was abused by her father and left, then her two sisters and finally her brother left as well. She spent time with her father though he eventually left too, but she didn’t tell anyone and spent time at the marsh store that was run by a black family who looked out for her.

Kya traded muscles she harvested in the marsh for grits, which was easy as the marsh was her home and where she met Tate (Taylor John Smith), a young boy who also loved the marsh. As they grew older he would bring Kya feathers and vegetable seeds, along with notes. When Kya shared she couldn’t read Tate said he would teach her. When his father showed concern for their friendship, Tate explained that people in the town treated Kya horribly and she couldn’t go to school so he was helping her to learn to read, bringing her books and other things she needed.

Kya and Tate became very close, but Tate was soon off to college, though had plans to come back for Kya. Tate had some understanding of the family issues Kya was dealing with as he lost his mother and sister in a car wreck. They spent one last night together before he left for college, and Tate gave Kya a list of publishers to help publish her nature notes and drawings from the marsh as he said there was nothing out there like it and that she could make a life from it.

They agreed to meet at their favorite beach in the marsh on July 4th, but Tate never showed, leaving Kya heartbroken with yet another person that walked out of her life. Kya retreated back to her home in the marsh for several years when she discovered developers were looking to buy the land in her area and due to an $800 tax bill on the house she could lose it. This prompted Kya to follow Tate’s advice and contact publishers to sell her work.

Kya had lived in the marsh on her own for 10 years when Chase (Harris Dickinson) came into her life. He was from a socialite family and approached Kya to invite her to a picnic on his boat Sunday. Chase made a pass at Kya, making her feel very uncomfortable, so he asked to make it up to her by taking her up to the fire tower where he promised to not make any unwanted advances towards her and after they began to meet regularly in the marsh.

Chase took Kya to a hotel where they were together for the first time, and she gave him a shell necklace she made that he wore from then on. Chase said he wanted to marry Kya, but later Kya saw Chase in town with a girl who introduced herself as his fiance. Kya told Chase to leave her alone, but he followed her to her place. He hit Kya but she hit him back, then he threw her to the ground and tried to rape her. She got away and told him to leave her alone or she would kill him

Kya went back home and Chase had destroyed her place. A few days later his body was found at the base of the fire tower and the police arrested Kya. With sham evidence and no real apparent motive, local attorney Tom Milton (David Strathairn) offered to take Kya’s case. He showed the sheriff requested the forest service to repair the dangerous grates on the tower as well as established that Kya had an alibi as she was out of town to meet her publishers. One interesting fact was that Chase was missing his shell necklace. Would Kya be found innocent, and if Kya didn’t kill Chase then who did? The ending sheds light on some interesting revelations.

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Vol. 16, No. 04 – Nov 16 – Nov 30, 2022 – A View from House Seats

by Shirley Lorraine

9 to 5 at Conejo Brings Large cast, High Energy

Some things apparently don’t change enough over time. One of them is the plight of working women everywhere – inequality. The Conejo Players Theatre in Thousand Oaks has highlighted this ongoing dilemma with their current production of 9 to 5, The Musical. Remember when the movie came out in 1980 and was a huge hit?

Based on a book by Patricia Resnick, country legend Dolly Parton picked up the gauntlet and wrote the music and lyrics to bring this saga of all-too familiar life in the steno pool at a large company run by “the good old boys club.”

Director Erin Fagundes has assembled a huge cast and has skillfully mounted a technically demanding production filled with engaging characterizations, familiar situations (sadly, many that are still in play even today) and high-spirited action. It is no wonder this hasn’t been seen on local stages – the sheer number of scene changes is daunting. Director Fagundes and set designer Jordyn Kieffer have managed to fashion a set that is highly functional and actually fun to watch as the set pieces are rolled in and out of the action without missing a beat. The set changes themselves are an integral part of the overall flow of the show.

The three main characters, memorably played in the movie by Dolly Parton, Lily Tomlin and Jane Fonda, are given new life by Katie McTyre, Dana Kolb and Mary Grace Zehnpfennig, respectively. Each is a powerhouse. All three have strong voices and enough energy to carry the audience through the two-and-a-half-hour journey.

The less than PC boss, Franklin Hart, Jr., is played to the comedic hilt by Scott Quintard. He embodies fully the character everyone loves to hate. He is often backed up by a capable cadre of yes-men dancers who are a delight to watch as they move set pieces into place.

The love-struck role of Roz is fully portrayed by Dana Weisman, who gives a stand-out and polished performance throughout.

A multitude of ensemble members fill the desk chairs, dance with enthusiasm and fill in all the gaps and then some. Of note is the choreography by Julie Hackett and Susan Ingram which gives everyone something to do. The large cast is also treated to a variety of costume changes to accent each “fantasy” production number. Well done keeping it 80’s light.

A live orchestra, hidden out of sight somewhere, provides excellent accompaniment throughout. Nice to hear it live rather than recorded.

You will exit the theatre with the familiar 9 to 5 song playing in your head for days and the realization that some aspects of corporate life haven’t really changed that much, despite the passage of time. But if we could just sing and dance our way throughout the days, as this cast does, all would be well in the end.

9 to 5 runs through December 4 with performances Fridays and Saturdays at 8:00 p.m., Sundays at 2:00 p.m., Thursday, Nov. 17 at 8:00 p.m. and Saturday December 3 at 2:00 p.m. Tickets available at www.ConejoPlayers.org, (805) 495-3715.

The Bookmark About Librairies and Friends

by Mary Olson

Save the Date! Hill Road Library is turning 5!

Hill Road Library, 1070 S. Hill Road, has been a spectacular success since its opening in 2017. It is now the 2nd
most utilized branch in the Ventura County Library System. In addition to books and programs, it offers the
innovative express hours service, wifi, a laptop kiosk, wireless color printing and a study room. Programs offered at this branch include storytime, book clubs, Paws for Reading, Little Lab, Maker Club and Minecraft Club. As Nancy Schram, Ventura County Library Director, said at the opening celebration, “It’s a wonderful example of how the County, City, and community came together to provide funding and support so that we can reach more people with library services and ultimately improve lives and enrich the entire community.” This project was realized through the efforts of Ventura County Library System, Ventura County Board of Supervisors, who approved ongoing funds in the amount of $250,000 to operate the new library; the City of Ventura, who provided $25,000 for one-time capital expenditures and approved $50,000 annually and Ventura Friends of the Library who raised and contributed $200,000.

Hill Road Library’s 5th Birthday Party will take place at the library on Saturday, December 3.

The celebration will begin at 10:30 am with arts and crafts. A Magic Show with Zany Zoe begins at 11:00 am. Her
one of a kind magic show is bilingual with engaging music and humor.

Whenever you visit Hill Road Library, be sure to take a look at the Ventura Friends of the Library sales shelves. The shelves have been restocked with holiday selections! The cash you drop in the box helps add up to good things like the Hill Road library.

And, news from Fillmore Library–
Fillmore Library, which has been closed for renovations, reopens Saturday, November 19, 10:00 am to 5:00 pm.
The community is invited to visit their newly renovated and expanded library, 502 2nd Street, Fillmore. Storytime
for the children at noon and 3:00 pm. STEAM Activities. Get a library card!

The Friends Bookstore in E.P. Foster Library will be open for some extra shifts in November and December.
The store will be open Tuesday through Saturday, 11:00 am to 4:00 pm. and, the store will be open Sundays, 1:30
to 4:00 pm.

We also invite you to visit our online bookstore for local sales https://venturafol-107753.square.site/s/shop. When
you make a purchase there, you will receive an email letting you know when your order will be ready for pickup at
the bookstore in E.P. Foster.

If you have a large donation of books for us, please email: [email protected]
As always, we welcome new volunteers. We could particularly use someone who could help with the sale of comic books and manga through eBay. Please leave your information at the bookstore if you would like to help or email at the address above.

Managing medicines for a person with Alzheimer’s

People with Alzheimer’s disease may take medicines to treat the disease itself, mood or behavior changes, and other medical conditions. Caregivers can ensure that medicines are taken safely and correctly. Here are some tips to help you manage medications for someone with Alzheimer’s disease.

Learn the basics

Know each medicine (prescription and over-the-counter) the person with Alzheimer’s disease takes. Ask the doctor or pharmacist:

Why is this medicine being used?

What positive effects should I look for, and when?

How long will the person need to take it?

What is the dose and how often should he or she take the medicine?

What if the person misses a dose?

What are the side effects, and what can I do about them?

Can this medicine cause problems if taken with other medicines?

Managing medications is easier if you have a complete list of them. The list should show the name of the medicine, the doctor who prescribed it, how much the person with Alzheimer’s takes, and how often. Visit Tracking Your Medications: Worksheet for a template. Keep the list in a safe place at home, and make a copy to keep in your purse or wallet or save a picture on your phone. Bring it with you when you visit the person’s doctor or pharmacist.

People with Alzheimer’s should be monitored when they start taking a new drug. Follow the doctor’s instructions and report any unusual symptoms right away. Also, let the doctor know before adding or changing any medications.

People with Alzheimer’s disease often need help taking their medicines. If the person lives alone, you may need to call and remind him or her or leave notes around the home. A pillbox allows you to put pills for each day in one place. Some pillboxes come with alarms that remind a person to take the medicines.

As Alzheimer’s gets worse, you will need to keep track of the person’s medicines. You also will need to make sure the person takes the medicines or give the medicines to him or her.

Some people with Alzheimer’s take medicines to treat behavior problems such as restlessness, anxiety, depression, trouble sleeping, and aggression. Experts agree that medicines to treat behavior problems should be used only after other strategies that don’t use medicine have been tried. Talk with the person’s doctor about which medicines are safest and most effective. With these types of medicines, it is important to:

It is recommended that people with Alzheimer’s should not take anticholinergic drugs. These drugs are used to treat many medical problems such as sleeping problems, stomach cramps, incontinence, asthma, motion sickness, and muscle spasms. Side effects, such as confusion, can be serious for a person with Alzheimer’s. These drugs should not be given to a person with Alzheimer’s disease. You might talk with the person’s doctor about other options. Examples of these drugs include:

Ipratropium — brand name Atrovent

Dimenhydrinate — brand name Dramamine

Diphenhydramine — includes brand names such as Benadryl and Nytol

Some people, especially those with late-stage Alzheimer’s, may have trouble swallowing pills. In this case, ask the pharmacist if the medicine can be crushed or taken in liquid form. Here are other ways to make sure medicines are taken safely:

Keep all medications locked up.

Check that the label on each prescription bottle has the drug name and dose, patient’s name, dosage frequency, and expiration date.

Taking Care of Yourself: Tips for Caregivers

Taking care of yourself is one of the most important things you can do as a caregiver. Make sure you’re eating healthy, being active, and taking time for yourself.

Caregiving, especially from a distance, is likely to bring out many different emotions, both positive and negative

Although they may not feel as physically exhausted and drained as the primary, hands-on caregiver, long-distance caregivers may still be worried and anxious. Sometimes, long-distance caregivers feel guilty about not being closer, not doing enough, not having enough time with the person, and perhaps even feeling jealous of those who do. Many long-distance caregivers also find that worrying about being able to afford to take time off from work, being away from family, or the cost of travel increases these frustrations. Remember that you are doing the best you can given the circumstances and that you can only do what you can do. It may help to know that these are feelings shared by many other long-distance caregivers—you are not alone in this.

Taking care of yourself if one of the most important things you can do as a caregiver. Make sure you are making time for yourself, eating healthy foods, and being active. Consider joining a caregiver support group, either in your own community or online. Meeting other caregivers can relieve your sense of isolation and will give you a chance to exchange stories and ideas. If you need help, don’t be afraid to ask for it.

Caregiving is not easy for anyone—not for the caregiver and not for the care recipient. There are sacrifices and adjustments for everyone. When you don’t live where the care is needed, it may be especially hard to feel that what you are doing is enough and that what you are doing is important. It often is.

For More Information About Caregiver Health

Family Caregiver Alliance 800-445-8106

[email protected] www.caregiver.org

This content is provided by the NIH National Institute on Aging (NIA). NIA scientists and other experts review this content to ensure it is accurate and up to date.

Vol. 16, No. 04 – Nov 16 – Nov 30, 2022 – Forever Homes Wanted

Hi: I’m Raddish, a handsome 3+ year old Siberian Husky who was rescued from an OC Shelter where I was found as a stray. A group of people have stepped up to sponsor me so I can be a part of the CARL program and find my forever home.

I love to play in water, walk well on leash, not dog aggressive, and enjoy using my voice to let you know how excited I am. The CARL volunteers say I’m a sweetheart and well tempered and I deserve a loving companion or family. It is unknown how I’d behave with children or cats.

If you’re interested in meeting me, please fill out an online application. Canine Adoption and Rescue League C.A.R.L.

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CARL Adoption Center-call 644-7387 for more information.


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Meet Mugu, our Pet Of The Week! Mugu is a playful 1.5-year-old German Shepherd Mix. He plays well with the dogs at the shelter. He knows sit and he loves treats! He’s got a lot of energy and he gets very excited to go for walks!

If you’d like to meet Mugu, schedule an appointment at https://www.vcas.us/adopt or come down to the shelter during normal Adoption Hours of 1:00pm – 6:00pm Tuesday – Sunday. If you have questions, please contact us at (805) 388-4341 or [email protected]. More about Mugu: https://www.vcas.us/viewan-2/?ida=A807564

The symptoms of dementia can vary

What are the signs and symptoms of dementia?

Signs and symptoms of dementia result when once-healthy neurons, or nerve cells, in the brain stop working, lose connections with other brain cells, and die. While everyone loses some neurons as they age, people with dementia experience far greater loss.

The symptoms of dementia can vary and may include:
Experiencing memory loss, poor judgment, and confusion
Difficulty speaking, understanding and expressing thoughts, or reading and writing
Wandering and getting lost in a familiar neighborhood
Trouble handling money responsibly and paying bills
Repeating questions
Using unusual words to refer to familiar objects
Taking longer to complete normal daily tasks
Losing interest in normal daily activities or events
Hallucinating or experiencing delusions or paranoia
Acting impulsively
Not caring about other people’s feelings
Losing balance and problems with movement

People with intellectual and developmental disabilities can also develop dementia as they age, and recognizing their symptoms can be particularly difficult. It’s important to consider a person’s current abilities and to monitor for changes over time that could signal dementia.

The causes of Alzheimer’s and related dementias can vary, depending on the types of brain changes that may be taking place. While research has found that some changes in the brain are linked to certain forms of dementia, in most cases, the underlying causes are unknown. Rare genetic mutations may cause dementia in a relatively small number of people.

Although there is no proven prevention, in general, leading a healthy lifestyle may help reduce risk factors that have been associated with these diseases.
Types of dementia include:

Alzheimer’s disease, the most common dementia diagnosis among older adults. It is caused by changes in the brain, including abnormal buildups of proteins, known as amyloid plaques and tau tangles.

Frontotemporal dementia, a rare form of dementia that tends to occur in people younger than 60. It is associated with abnormal amounts or forms of the proteins tau and TDP-43.

Lewy body dementia, a form of dementia caused by abnormal deposits of the protein alpha-synuclein, called Lewy bodies.

Vascular dementia, a form of dementia caused by conditions that damage blood vessels in the brain or interrupt the flow of blood and oxygen to the brain.

Mixed dementia, a combination of two or more types of dementia. For example, through autopsy studies involving older adults who had dementia, researchers have identified that many people had a combination of brain changes associated with different forms of dementia.

Scientists are investigating how the underlying disease processes in different forms of dementia start and influence each other. They also continue to explore the variety of disorders and disease processes that contribute to dementia. For example, based on autopsy studies, researchers recently characterized another form of dementia, known as LATE. Further knowledge gains in the underlying causes of dementia will help researchers better understand these conditions and develop more personalized prevention and treatment strategies.

Fall Prevention Program

by Carol Leish, MA

For the Ventura County Area Agency on Aging (VC AAA), Julianna Eusanio, MSW, is the Fall Prevention Program Coordinator. Shaunese Southward is the Program Coordinator.

All classes are for those who are over the age of 60, and are free. They are offered in Ventura at the Area Agency on Aging. Southward said, “All classes are evidenced based and ‘tried and true.’” Classes are: 1) A Matter of Balance; 2) Stepping On; 3) Tai Chi Moving for Better Balance; and 4) Walk with Ease. For more information, please look at the website: www.vcaaa.org.

“Case management is important,” according to Southward. “We have been fortunate enough to have received a grant through the end of next year that will allow us to reach more of our community than what we have been historically able to be doing. This grant has allowed us to provide services to adults that are 60+ and adults with disabilities. Prior to this grant, case management services were provided solely to seniors 65+ referred by the City of Ventura EMS, City of Ventura Fire, and the Emergency Department of our partner hospitals (Ventura County Medical Center, Community Memorial Health System in both Ventura and the Ojai Valley).

“Through the ‘consent to contact,’ which is given to the EMS & Fire officials, short term/long term resources, such as classes offered (mentioned above), can be given to individuals in need of services. Thus, individuals are asked, ‘Are you open to someone reaching out to you after your fall?’ Through this and other questions on a questionnaire, we are reaching out to a population who wouldn’t necessarily be getting connected to resources.”

Pearls (A Program to encourage active and rewarding lives.) “It is a program to help individuals who have fallen,” according to Southward. “Part of this entails giving a whole person assessment that looks at various needs/impairments. This includes: 1) Transportation needs; 2) Long term care management needs; and, 3) the possibility of cognitive impairment challenges. One of the benefits of this assessment is to get connected faster to available services.

“Not all (after someone falls), is an easy fix, since there is a change in physical limitations which may include the person who has fallen going to a rehabilitation facility. The person could be experiencing depression and isolation, along with the fear of falling again.

“Fall prevention is unique since our program (at the VC Area Agency on Aging), may also speak to family members who might be caregivers. It’s important for these caregivers to get connected to resources in order not to feel frustrated or experience burnout.”

For more information regarding getting assistance for someone who has fallen, call Julianna Eusanio, MSW or Shaunese Southward at: (805) 477-7342. Or email: [email protected]; or, [email protected].

Healthy Aging Tips for the Older Adults in your life

If you have older family members or loved ones, you may worry about their health as they age. Aging increases the risk of chronic diseases such as heart disease, type 2 diabetes, arthritis, cancer, and dementia. The good news is that adopting and maintaining a few key behaviors can help older adults live longer, healthier lives. As a family member, it’s important to encourage healthy lifestyle behaviors in your loved ones — it’s never too late to start!

Healthy behavior changes can help older adults live more independently later in life. That’s important both for their quality of life and for yours. If a family member loses independence — whether it’s due to disability or chronic disease — you may find yourself in a caregiving role earlier than expected, which can affect family dynamics as well as finances.

So what can you do to help the older adults in your life manage their health, live as independently as possible, and maintain quality of life as they age? Read on to learn about four ways to help support and promote healthy habits in your older loved ones’ lives.

As people age, they often find themselves spending more time alone. Poor health, the death of a partner, caring for a loved one, and other situations that are more likely as people age can all lead to being socially isolated or feeling lonely.

Although they sound similar, social isolation and loneliness are different. Loneliness is the distressing feeling of being alone or separated, while social isolation is the lack of social contacts and having few people to interact with regularly. Increased social isolation and loneliness are associated with higher risks for health problems, such as depression; heart disease; and cognitive decline, which is a decrease in the ability to think, learn, and remember.

As a family member, you can play an important role in helping the older adults in your life to stay socially connected. Here are some ways you can help:

Encourage them to seek out others with shared interests, such as through a garden club, volunteer organization, or walking group.

Search the Eldercare Locator or call 800-677-1116. The Eldercare Locator is a nationwide service that connects older adults and their caregivers with trustworthy local support resources.

There are lots of reasons to make physical activity a part of daily life. Exercise can help reduce levels of stress and anxiety, improve balance and lower risk of falls, enhance sleep, and decrease feelings of depression. Most importantly, people who exercise regularly not only live longer, but also may live better — meaning they enjoy more years of life with less pain or disability. On the other hand, lack of physical activity can lead to increased visits to the doctor, more hospitalizations, and increased risk of certain chronic conditions.

Encouraging the older adults in your life to exercise may not be easy — it can be difficult to get someone to start a new activity — but the rewards are worth the effort. Following are some suggestions to help encourage exercise or other daily movement:

Help your loved ones aim for a mix of activities, including aerobics, strength training, balance, and flexibility. This could include walking around the neighborhood, lifting weights, gardening, or stretching.

Discuss how much activity is recommended and brainstorm ways to work it into their daily lives. Experts recommend at least 150 minutes per week of moderate-intensity aerobic exercise, and muscle-strengthening activities at least two days each week.

Help them shop for appropriate clothing and equipment for their exercise activities. Remember, many activities don’t require expensive equipment. For example, they can use filled water bottles as weights for strength training or walk outside or at a mall rather than on a treadmill.

Share your favorite activities that get you moving. Are there any you could do together? If so, that’s a bonus because you’re not only helping promote physical activity but also helping to prevent loneliness and social isolation.

Healthy eating is an important part of healthy aging. As with exercise, eating well is not just about weight. Having a healthy diet can help support muscles and strengthen bones, which can help with balance and independence. A nutritious diet involving a variety of fresh fruits and vegetables, whole grains, healthy fats, and lean proteins also can help boost immunity and lower the risk of certain health problems such as heart disease, high blood pressure, obesity, type 2 diabetes, stroke, and some cancers.

Senior exercise program instructors needed

Trained instructors make a difference in the lives of those enrolled.

Volunteer leaders are needed to teach with RSVP’s popular senior exercise program, Bone Builders. No experience is necessary to become an instructor, the first training step is to attend a class and observe. Interested volunteers then attend a free training session to learn the program and prepare for teaching.

Trained instructors make a difference in the lives of those enrolled in classes, as well as contribute to their own well-being by engaging in a regular exercise program. RSVP exercise programs are free and open to the public. Classes operate in RSVP’s four-city service area of Oxnard, Ventura, Camarillo and Port Hueneme.

This is an osteoporosis exercise and education program in which participants use light weights to build bones while also improving their balance and making new friends. There are currently 21 classes scheduled in RSVP’s four-city area, but several have lengthy wait lists. By training more instructors we will be able to add more classes and accommodate the community’s interest in this program.

Volunteers attend one day of training before being paired with an experienced instructor to practice and ready for leading their own class. All trainings run from 9:00am to 3:00pm in Oxnard. Lunch is provided.

RSVP is a volunteer engagement program, helping people age 55 and older find volunteer positions that match their interests, talent, and available time. It both recruits and places volunteers with nonprofit partner agencies as well as overseeing the two distinct exercise programs designed for seniors. Volunteer positions are available in RSVP’s four-city service area of Oxnard, Ventura, Camarillo and Port Hueneme.

Oxnard RSVP has about 350 members and is locally sponsored by the City of Oxnard with grant funding from the federal AmeriCorps. To learn more about the benefits of being an RSVP member, for help finding a volunteer position or more information about the trainings, call 805-385-8019.