by Debbie Lasley, CAREGIVERS Volunteer Engagement Coordinator
I’ve always found solace in the company of elderly people. There’s a comfort and connection that comes naturally to me—I often feel like I have an old soul. When I applied for my position at CAREGIVERS a year ago, drawing on my experience with senior volunteers, I anticipated enjoying the role. Little did I know how profoundly it would impact my perspective on the aging population in Ventura County.
Many seniors here are homebound, lacking the company of family or friends, and facing profound isolation and frustration. The realization of my job’s significance hit me hard. My role involves seeking out volunteers to support these seniors, from providing essential transport to medical appointments, to weekly check-ins, picking up prescriptions, and helping with household chores and groceries—simple tasks we often take for granted.
As I approach these later years myself, I can’t help but wonder about my own future. Will my children be there for me? What about those without children? These questions weigh heavily on many of our volunteers too. They choose to dedicate their time now, knowing they may one day rely on similar support.
When asked why they volunteer, their answers are poignant. “Someday I will appreciate having someone help me, so I am investing in my future needs,” remarked one. Another shared, “I didn’t spend enough time with my parents when they were alive, so I want to give back now.” Whatever their motivation, we always welcome more helping hands.
Recently, I spent three hours with a senior suffering from MS and other ailments, living alone with her ailing cat. Despite her sharp mind, her body fails her daily. Her story as a single mother facing relentless job discrimination due to her illness was deeply moving. Her struggles, and those of countless others I’ve encountered, underscore the immense challenges they endure alone. Leaving that visit in tears, I was overwhelmed by the desire to do more. If this article can connect even one person with a senior in need, it could mean one less lonely soul. The impact of being there for someone in their time of need cannot be overstated.
Our communities are calling for your help! Even a couple of hours a week could be invaluable. The idea that there’s never enough time to volunteer is a myth—a few hours can transform a senior’s life. Join us today and see the impact you can make firsthand!
Please join me in making a difference. To learn more, visit www.vccaregivers.org, email [email protected], or call 805-658-8530.
